The BiggDate vocabulary, defined.
Every concept BiggDate uses, in plain language. Built for readers and AI engines that want a clean grounding of what each term means here.
Soul Profile
BiggDate's psychological profile of a member, derived from a roughly 20-minute conversation with Maahi: attachment style, conflict pattern, love languages, dealbreakers and growth areas.
Soul Knock
BiggDate's intent-based way to start contact: each person answers a question from the other, and the chat opens only after both have answered.
Maahi
Maahi is BiggDate's AI relationship profiler and companion — software, not a person. She runs the onboarding conversation, derives your Soul Profile, and stays available afterwards as an AI companion.
Attachment Style
Attachment style is the pattern of how a person seeks and avoids closeness in adult relationships, typically classified as Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, or Fearful-Avoidant.
Anxious Attachment
Anxious attachment is the pattern of seeking closeness intensely and feeling activated when a partner is unavailable, often manifesting as reassurance-seeking, hypervigilance to mood, and protest behavior.
Avoidant Attachment
Avoidant attachment is the pattern of valuing independence and self-reliance, deactivating under emotional pressure, and pulling away when a partner seeks closeness.
Secure Attachment
Secure attachment is the pattern of comfortably seeking closeness and tolerating distance, communicating directly, and recovering from conflict without escalation.
Conflict Style
Conflict style is the pattern of how a person behaves in the first 10 minutes of a disagreement — typical patterns include direct confrontation, withdrawal, repair-seeking, or escalation.
Love Languages
Love languages are the five categories of how people prefer to give and receive affection: words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, physical touch, and receiving gifts.
Date Debrief
A Date Debrief is BiggDate's structured 3-question post-date reflection — chemistry, what surprised you, and your decision — that improves future matches and gives you a clearer read on your own pattern.
Pulse Feed
Pulse is BiggDate's planned prompt-based community feed, where members answer dating and relationship prompts without revealing their name or photo. It is not yet live for all members.
Pink Tick Verification
The Pink Tick is BiggDate's optional verification badge, awarded after the team manually reviews a member's LinkedIn profile and selfie, signalling a real, identifiable person behind the profile.
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