From signup to first date — in seven steps.
BiggDate is intentionally slow at the front and fast in the middle. Twenty minutes once, then a few well-chosen people per day.
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Sign up with email and full name
Create an account in under a minute. Confirm you are 18 or older and accept the Terms and Privacy Policy. Confirm your email via the link we send.
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Talk to Maahi — Phase 1: basic facts (~3 min)
Maahi, BiggDate's AI relationship profiler, asks you 8 quick questions to set up your profile: location, birthday, gender, who you want to meet, age range, intent (marriage, serious, exploring), what keeps you busy, and lifestyle basics. All chip-driven and fast.
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Talk to Maahi — Phase 2: psychological depth (~7–8 min)
Maahi asks 9 deeper questions and up to 5 adaptive follow-ups when an answer is thin or emotionally rich. Topics: why now, last meaningful relationship, conflict in the first 10 minutes, how you know someone cares about you, how you show up when you love someone, work intensity, date-3 dealbreaker, what you bring that's hard to find, and what a partner needs to understand about you.
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Receive your Soul Snapshot
BiggDate derives a Soul Profile from the conversation: attachment style (Secure / Anxious / Avoidant / Fearful-Avoidant), conflict style, love language given vs received, core values, growth areas, dealbreakers, and a written 2–3 sentence summary of who you are emotionally.
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See 1–5 curated matches per day
Every day, BiggDate surfaces a small number of high-fit candidates. Each match comes with a narrative — why this pair would resonate, where the friction is, and one opening question that would be meaningful to both of you. No endless feed, no swipe spam.
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Soul Knock to start a conversation
Interested in a match? Compose a question for them. They'll see it and answer. You then answer a reciprocal question. Only after both sides have answered do photos unlock and a chat thread open. This is BiggDate's intent gate — no contact without effort.
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Date and debrief
After a date, BiggDate prompts a structured 3-question reflection: chemistry, what surprised you, and your decision. The reflection updates your future matches. Maahi remains available between events as a confidant who knows your patterns.
See also: how BiggDate compares to other apps, FAQ, about.