The BiggDate onboarding takes roughly 20 minutes end to end. The first part is quick-tap basic facts: location, who you want to meet, age range, intent and lifestyle. The second part is a conversation with Maahi about why you're dating now, your last meaningful relationship, conflict, love languages, dealbreakers and what you bring to a partnership. Maahi asks follow-ups when an answer is thin or emotionally rich, so the time varies with how much you share.
After the conversation, you read your Soul Snapshot — a short written summary of who you are emotionally, plus the structured fields behind it.
The length is intentional. A five-question form cannot capture attachment style or conflict pattern reliably, and the time investment is also a self-selection filter for people who are serious.
You complete onboarding once. After that, BiggDate takes a few minutes a day: a curated match or two and any conversations in progress.